Saturday, September 12, 2015

things we notice again


Everyone warned us: it goes really, really fast.

The last time we posted, it was with a just-turned-one-year-old babbling in our arms. Now, so suddenly, here I sit with a toddler telling me about his day (“found a buggie, peed on the floor, Puck pushed me down”). Skimming through the blog today, it’s also amazing how much you forget amidst the haste of everything. Time for a refresher, I think – Things We Notice Now will be expecting a second little one the end of March! 

-Eleanor 

Note From Scott: Next up, vasectomy! 

*photo by Michelle Lynn Photography 

Wednesday, July 23, 2014

there's so much more to come


The blog has sat silent with increasing frequency this past month. Promised posts have been forgotten, entire weeks left empty. This is in part due to life's inevitable other demands (a birthday party to throw, vacations to take, a beloved dog to say goodbye to, a new job to start [Eleanor], classes to study for [Scott], perhaps another blog to launch [stay posted!]). But also - now a year into this parenthood adventure - there just aren't as many things to notice. That which was so new, and novel, and naive (dirty diapers, French giraffes, and the intricacies of onesies) is now normal, and natural, and (somewhat more) knowledgeable. We are no more experts in parenting than we were at the start, but, over the course of the year, we have finally found our rhythm as a family. This first year alone has been so incredibly challenging and transforming and wonderful, and we are so excited to see what is to come.

Thank you for reading. We have loved sharing our lives with you.

-Scott & Eleanor

Sunday, July 6, 2014

one year

Clay is one year old today. Naturally, we threw a party.


In honor of our very greatest adventure, we hosted a Moonrise Kingdom-inspired bash. Complete with Khaki Scout uniform.












 




Monday, June 30, 2014

baby boys


With less than a week to go, birthday party prep is in full swing, and the blog has become a little neglected in the midst of invitations and pies and gift wrap. But we're back on schedule with a post for Monday! Continuing with our theme of the month, here's a roundup of the best things about boys. 

When we first learned we were having a little boy, Eleanor waved farewell to her Little Women dreams and Scott started planning Clay's football career. But having a boy has been so much more wonderful and complex than we ever imagined. Of course, every baby is different, and we try to ignore the "rules" for the most part (we dress our poor kid in tights after all). But here are the Things We Love About Having A Boy: 

-They're Cheap- Baby boy clothes are adorable (bow ties, itty bitty flannel shirts, airplane tights, anyone?), but even the kid-specific stores stock about half as much for boys as they do for girls, and you can really only own so many button-down rompers. The money saved on oversized hair bows almost makes up for the fact that we have no one to buy oversized hair bows for.* In the same vein, no wedding to pay for. Score. 

-They're Mama's Boys- "I was so worried I wouldn't have anything in common with a little boy and that, worst of all, he wouldn't be able to connect with me. That he'd look to his dad for fun and just view me as his crazy mom stopping him from doing anything exciting. And now I can't imagine having a girl. I love how cuddly Clay is, and how his hair sticks up, and how he is always, inexplicably, covered in dirt. Suddenly trucks, and trains, and bugs are the neatest things ever. I'm even forcing myself to learn soccer scoring." -Eleanor 

-They're Daddy's Boys- "I love having a little mini-me, someone who will grow up to love the things you love. And there isn't nothing better than walking in the door to my little boy clapping his hands for me." -Scott

-They're Little Men- We are growing Clay to be one of the good guys, someone who will treat women right and stand for what's right, someone who will take action when necessary and step back when needed. No telling for sure whether or not it will work, but hopefully with the right example little boys become awesome men. 

-Scott & Eleanor 

*So says Eleanor. Even if we had a girl, Scott wouldn't spend a cent on oversized hair bows.